Thursday, April 24, 2014
Still, sometimes I mess up a little. This morning on my way to work is a good example: I was a bit late and driving a tad too fast and blew through the Hipass at well above the recommended 30 km/h. As I had the speed, I cut in front of a BMW on the way into my exit. Mr. BMW was obviously quite annoyed, as he flashed his lights repeatedly at me; every good adjusshi knows that the person with the more expensive car is always given the right of way in this most excellent of nations. I thought it best to speed up, to remove myself from the sight of Mr. BMW; I climbed to 160 and blew past a bunch of traffic to do so. However, Mr. BMW was having none of that and obviously felt that I needed finer instruction on the ways of this most pretigious land: he quickly caught up and tried to cut me off going 170+.
Now this to me was quite shocking, as he was endangering his car. This was not in keeping with true adjusshi, and it was obvious he needed my help. An opportunity to pass him in the traffic presented itself, and as I've seen this kind of situation several times before and knew what needed to be done, in true adjusshi fashion I blew past Mr. BMW then slowed down to about 80 to run parallel with a truck. He obviously was needing the time to calm and slow down, to stop risking damage to his very nice car. I gave him the time to honk and flash his lights repeatedly, then at the last second veered off onto an exit. While he did try to slow down to also get the exit and continue his instruction, he was unable and I was gone.
I know I could have handled the situation better, by yielding to his obviously higher economic and social status, and while I do try my best to meet the expectations based on keen observation over the years, I know I still have much to learn. But really it's what should be done. As it has often been said: when in Rome, do as the Koreans. One day I know I will get it right.
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
The Sewol ferry disaster is beyond simple words of sympathy or expressions of anger. So many young people losing their lives because of the inaction and indecision of a few who were supposedly trained to deal with situations that occur at sea renders such statements hollow in a way.
Still, the anger did rise in me today when around the water cooler Mrs. Cho went on about the sickness in Korean society, all due to excessive rapid development; in the process core Korean values were lost and forgotten, since money and fierce competition destroyed the value of life.
I kept my mouth shut for once. I couldn't get into it, since watching the news unfold that over 300 mostly kids died pointlessly struck home as to how vulnerable we all are. Still, this tendency for some Koreans to point to some illustrious, idyllic past, where everyone lived in harmony and helped one another, in contrast to the bustle and inhumanity of modern life, all caused by following the western plan to modernize and develop, really gets on my nerves as well as demonstrates a true lack of historical perspective. Korean society has always been cutthroat from my readings of it, with the majority of the population constantly having to eat shit all the time: the caste system, the Nobi, a general lack of concern for life and welfare, have long been features of all civilizations, and Korea is no exception. Life in the lower classes in Korea has long been brutal and unforgiving, yet some like Mrs. Cho think otherwise. Yet to use this tragedy to grind her political ax was beyond the pale. I generally avoid talking to her, since, well, idiots, and life is too short to spend time engaging them all; I wish I had done the same today. Next week I wouldn't be surprised if she or someone else went on about how the Sewol being built in Japan was somehow responsible for the disaster.
But enough. Well wishes for those who have lost and suffered is the best answer. Stop thinking about morons and their lack of empathy and understanding.
Friday, April 18, 2014
Today I skipped out of work shortly after lunch. The tech guys were still messing with my computer to make it compatible for the new system, so I felt it best to take a little me time.
I'm out at one of my favorite camping spots. It took me a couple hours to set everything up, but I did have some time to collect a few mountain vegetables. It's still a bit early for many of them, but the younger ones are usually a bit tastier.
I'm 2 bottles of chiaksan #1 world best rice wine in. The fam should be showing up shortly, and I've got a nice fire going. It'll serve nicely for the grilling of delicious meat and marshmallows.
Time to crack that third bottle.
Saturday, April 12, 2014
I’m sitting in my office looking at Gmarket when a coworker comes in. It’s all small talk and pleasantries when he says: you know, people are just so selfish all the time. It really sucks that human nature is just so grim.
I look at him. It’s obvious he’s having a bad day and not making some statement about my character flaws. Without really knowing where I’m going, I say: yeah I get that dealing with other people is a trial at times. But I can’t think that people are so selfish all the time. They can’t be. Like this old guy I see every morning on my way to work. He must be 70 years old, and no matter the weather I see him out, pulling his cart and collecting cardboard and recyclables. His cart is all blinged out with lights and Taegookis and stuff; he’s got this awesome hat that I really like, looks like a fisherman’s hat. I’ve seen him for ten years, out there, smiling, while he hauls his load to the recycle center. He’s kinda famous in town; word is he’s actually quite rich, he just does it because he wants to keep doing something, to give to the community, even though he could be sitting back on a beach somewhere. Word is he spends the money he makes buying lunches and dinners for the other old folks out collecting, those who aren’t rich and either don’t want to bother their kids for money or can’t. Whenever I’m having a bad day, I think about that guy. He doesn’t lie down and die. Life can really suck at times but lying down isn’t an option, you have to keep going since that’s all you can really do.
There is a silence then he says: that’s an interesting story.
You think so? You know what’s really interesting about that story? It’s totally not true. That guy doesn’t exist, but you believe the story anyway. Why? Because you know people are out there, doing this kind of work, you’ve seen them, and maybe you’ve heard rumors how some of them are rich, and do it for the reasons I said. He is kind of a composite of every one of those people you’ve seen in your life. But you believe the story because you want to believe, you want it to be true and have your faith in humanity restored, to know that in a sea of indifference and hostility there are nice people who do nice things. You need to believe that there are people who go out and give back. We need these kinds of fuzzy wuzzy stories to remind us that there is hope and things can always get better.
A deep silence settles in while we sip our coffee. Then: I get your point. I am just having a bad day, what with my problems and all. I liked your story, thanks. I’ll catch you later.
Thursday, April 10, 2014
That business taken care of, a quick shower brings things into focus: it's Thursday. A bit of a light day actually, but then you never know. The jerkoffs in manufacturing or sales just might screw something up, as is their nature. But still, the day is looking pretty smooth. As was that hot little Vietnamese number. Maybe it's time to trade in and have some more kids. . .
Waking the kids up this morning is not such a chore: they went to bed early and so quickly respond. There is also Nutella for breakfast, a wonderful way to induce sugar dependency, but let no moms at the school say there is no doting on children in our domain! Hugs and kisses, out the door.
The van was left in the middle of the thoroughfare in the parking garage last night, parking brake off. The dinner last night hadn't gone too late, but there were still no spots left. As the day usually starts early, there is no issue with simply leaving the van in the thoroughfare, as if need be any schmo can simply push it out of the way: this is the adjusshi way. The typical scenarios play out as I walk to the van: it can be entertaining when some ijit leaves their parking brake on, and calling them up with righteous indignation gives opportunity to check out their wives, as they are generally too lazy to take care of it themselves; but this is not adjusshi and should be struck from the record, as it represents the thoughts of a much younger man. However, if the man actually shows, this gives a perfect opportunity to glare reproachfully, as any noob knows not to fix the parking brake. I don't give a fuck how drunk you were last night, but I do understand your special situation, so hurry the fuck up and move your car. But nothing of the sort this morning, which gives a mild sense of disappointment, since when your life sucks this can be ignored momentarily by making someone else feel even worse. But then I haven't succinctly stated the subject: as adjusshi, if you're not rich, or even if you are, your life sucks, since everyone is expecting you to sacrifice it all for family and country, and you do, sort of, and learn how to make it work for you by embracing the martyrdom in a manner that supports room salons and gold trips to Pattaya. Sadly, at this point I am rambling in a way that those not on the ground will need explanation, but as they say: in for a penny, in for a pound.
Musing on just how long it's been since I've left the confines of this most jaundiced of peninsulas is interrupted near the expressway toll gate: some jackass tries to blow past at 120 to cut onto the expressway ramp. Honking ignites the other driver's indignant angry adjusshi mode, which prompts him to slow down and try to force me to the shoulder. It's a fairly easy thing to work it, and there is the temptation to forgo the adjusshi pleasantries by simply blowing past him through the Hipass first, as opportunity presents. However, this could well result in a good 100 km chase on the expressway as no adjusshi will be denied the chance to scold, chastise, make someone feel smaller than they already know themselves to be. . . so I let him pull alongside and lower the window: like peacocks rustling their feathers, there is much hollering about questionable ethics and parentage. This momentary distraction does do wonders to mitigate having no one to bark at for a parking garage violation, as I got the upper hand by not apologizing and drawing attention to just how many laws and civic codes he violated, so let the warm glow of righteousness envelop for at least a short while.
At the exit to work, I need smoke. As there are no parking spaces available, simply pulling up in front of the GS25 and flicking on the hazards is the way to go. As I walk slowly to the shop, it is great fun to simply ignore the angry honking from irate drivers that have been inconvenienced by this manoevre, since fuck them if they can't be patient. What a bunch of self centered wankers! It'll only be a few minutes, and a man needs his smoke! Their honking is disturbing so many people, don't they have any respect or sense of civic virtue?! This is the adjusshi way mothafucka!
As I get back into the piece of shit I drive for a car, while living the normal piece of shit life I'm expected to live as a 40 something male in this piece of shit sticking out of Asia's asshole, I see him: the cardboard man. 70 something at least. I know I've probably seen him 100 times before, but this morning I'm more than impressed by his amazing hat, something that you'd expect a sport fisherman to wear. The cart he uses to collect piles of cardboard and recyclables is decked out in flashing lights, ribbons, and Taegukkis. Word is he is rich, he does it as he knows it needs to be done, and fuck those who think otherwise. He stands up and represents. I know that most of the older folk who do, do so from necessity, and get maybe a couple hundred a month. This guy does it because he knows it needs to be done, and you give back what you can as that's what a person does, until they can no longer. I get that, and I abide.
Fuck you Mr. Adjosshit
Saturday, April 5, 2014
In keeping with good waeg tradition, I'm out camping with a bunch of peeps from work. It's been a great time so far, with much hiking, grilling of animal flesh, and the imbibing of fermented grains by yours truly. Spirits are high and the mood congenial as we share war stories and tuck into some good food.
June was pissed when I came home with this massive canvas monstrosity, and I can understand her trepidation: I did spend over 1.3 million won, even with the discount, scooping up another bench and carry all bag in the process. While I will continue to sleep alone in the foreseeable future, no matter since: what a tent! I reminded her that generally when I do camping club activities, I charge the participants 30 thousand won each for gear rental on top of the other fees for food, site rental, firewood and the like, so after a year at most the tent will pay for itself. I won't have to deal with renting gear, which is time consuming and not always reliable, and I'd get to know the tent well. Her anger was somewhat assuaged when I gave her the cash for this weekend, which was almost a third of what I spent.
Back to it. Sadly I'm guessing there will be few mountain vegetables to pick as it is still a bit early in the season, and there is snow in the high mountains. I will be coming out again next weekend and at the end of the month, so I can wait for delicious durup and the like.
Time for coffee. Here are some tunes I'm listening to on this glorious morning while waiting for the others to crawl out of that new awesome tent: